Show & Tell: Hard Copy

August 26, 2009

I knew this day was coming. I alluded to it here.

Last week I got my advance copy of this.

And I flipped open to this.


That’s Crystal (Tessa’s birthmom) and her children with me and my children.

It’s the September/October issue, available on newsstands soon. Or you can subscribe to Adoptive Families.

Oh! I see I’m wearing my self-beater shirt in the photo.

**UPDATE: The article is now available online .**

See what my classmates are showing and telling at Mel’s Show & Tell.

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FireMom April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

I’ll be purchasing, of course. Very, very cool. Thumbs up!

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Sheri April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Lori, this is wonderful! You are really getting out there as a reputable voice in the open adoption world. You are making a HUGE difference. That is awesome!

I can’t wait to read the article. Will you autograph my copy??

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m April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

whoa! has to be a little strange to see yourselves in print, no? My gosh, exciting, and just a little nerve wrecking, I would guess. congrats to you and to all of you for sharing your stories so honestly. Truly a blessing (and you know I don’t use those kinds of words lightly).

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becomingwhole April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Wow! You’re (even more) famous!

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chicklet April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Woohoo, congrats my friend!

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edenland April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Wow. You .. and Crystal .. are amazing. Changing the world, you are.

XO

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Once A Mother April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

So exciting. I think that it is wonderful that you all are sharing your story.

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Denver Jen April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

This is so exciting! I can’t wait to see it in my mailbox! Congratulations!

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Calliope April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

WOOOO!!!! so so so awesome. & you look beautiful in your self beater

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My Reality April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Amazing article!

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Cara April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Lori – your strong voice and even stronger convictions on this topic will, indeed, change the world – one family at a time.

xoxo

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chicklet April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Woohoo, congrats my friend!

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edenland April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Wow. You .. and Crystal .. are amazing. Changing the world, you are.

XO

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Lollipop Goldstein April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

I am reading this post in a self-beater too :-) A black one though.

Congratulations! Huge congratulations. I think I focused so much on the brain tumour aspect of the other post that I completely missed asking about this part. Tunnel vision.

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areyoukiddingme April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

That’s awesome! Congratulations!

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MrsSpock April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Ah, exciting! And don’t you all look good…

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Martha April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

This is amazing!! You and your families are so beautiful. Wow, I am so proud to know you. I’m all teary over here, Mazel Tov.

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Kristin April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Oh wow Lori…I am so impressed. Very cool news my friend.

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battynurse April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Fantastic!

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Nicole April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Got my copy in the mail yesterday and I had forgotten about your article. When I started reading it was like Deja Vu…then I realized why!

Congrats and great piece!

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Delenn April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Congratulations! I cannot wait to read the article!

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Wishing 4 One April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Yeah! Just another outlet for you to get the word out AWESOME my friend. You are becoming quite the spokeswoman for open adoption and I think its awesome!

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Dana/WiredDesign April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Yep – fabulous article! I saw the picture and thought “HEY – I know her!” (Well, at least in an electronic bloggy sort of way!)
Congrats – yours is an amazing story – thanks for sharing!

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Phoebe April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Wow, you are really out there, literally! When is your Oprah gig?

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kaytii angel April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Congratulations! How exciting. Go go mamma!

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HC April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Congratulations! You should be proud of the work you are doing. Thanks. Very exciting!

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Brenna April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

That’s really exciting! What a great photo, and I’m sure the article is equally fabulous. Way to go!

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Geochick April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

How cool. Congrats!

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Yoka April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

That is awesome Lori! Congrats.

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Jamie April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

How awesome – congratulations!

I’m still laughing about the ‘self-beater’!!

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kate April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Woah! COOOOOL!!!

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Furrow April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

So cool! You’re such a beacon for people struggling with family building. After reading about your bright light at the end of the tunnel, one just has to feel better.

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luna April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

that is so awesome! how wonderful to share your extended family this way. what a beautiful picture too. I’m so glad you turned that post into an article. it’s perfect! kudos to you for sharing it here too.

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Sunny April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

How amazing!!! The picture is gorgeous and I imagine that the article is fabulous as well. I’ll be keeping an eye out for the magazine.

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Karen April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

How cool! Where can we get it without a subscription? Maybe at B&N? Congrats on being a glossy magazine star :)

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WiseGuy April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Absolutely lovely!

Strange thing is in that pic, Tessa’s forehead looks like mine from when I was a kid….had her kind of a hairstyle.

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Stacie April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Congratulations! That is so awesome!

The picture is beautiful, too!

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Rachel April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

:) although it’s a bit conceited, I like when I see myself in print ;) . Congrats on the spread!

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Alana April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Congrats to you, how wonderful! :)

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Caro April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Very cool!

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Aunt Becky April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

That’s AWESOME! Many, MANY congrats! Can I get an autograph?

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Lavender Luz April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Thank you, all. You’ve knocked me speechless!

(Imagine that.)

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Melissa April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

You are MY claim to fame!! Girl, you are amazing and I’m so very proud to be one of your stalkers!!! :o )

I’m getting a copy and hope for an autograph when we see each other at the MHM shin ding!

HUGS AND CONGRATS!!!!! :o ) !!!!

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loribeth April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Congratulations!! : )

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PFM April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Congratulations! I can’t wait for my issue to come out.

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RobinJP April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

that is awesome. I’ve always loved your ‘returning to the well’ concept. beautiful photo. great spread.
and to think… I knew you when..

congrats!

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tubelessistl April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Sweet.. You are the second person I’ve known (or followed in blog) to make it into AF magazine. I can’t wait to get my copy in my mail box. tap tap tap

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Kymberli April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

Wow. Have I ever told you how much you rock?

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Stephanie April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

I loved the article – it was wonderful. I just was a little concerned, though, when you mentioned that throwing away your daughter’s boots would be a “logical consequence.” Logical consequences usually relate to the infraction – for instance if it was a hot summer day and she wanted to wear the boots, the logical consequence would be that her feet would be hot. Or if she wanted to wear them to school, a logical consequence would be that she couldn’t participate in PE because she didn’t have the right footwear. Simply discarding something because your daughter made a different choice isn’t “logical.” It could definitely be a learning lesson or a consequence, but it is not a logical consequence. Otherwise I thought your article was absolutely wonderful. We also have very open contact with our daughter’s birthparents and I am thrilled with it.

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mary elizabeth April 7, 2010 at 4:19 am

this is just the beginning my friend. congrats!

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