Comments on: Guest post: JJ on Sibling Revelry http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html Open adoption parenting and mindful living Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:35:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Io http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35897 Io Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:21 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35897 Well written JJ! I love the apple seeds! Well written JJ! I love the apple seeds!

]]> By: Furrow http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35898 Furrow Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:21 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35898 Wonderful post, JJ. I'm shocked that people are already asking you about a sibling for the O-man. They need to chill and enjoy the deliciousness that he is. Wonderful post, JJ. I’m shocked that people are already asking you about a sibling for the O-man. They need to chill and enjoy the deliciousness that he is.

]]> By: Io http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35917 Io Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:21 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35917 Well written JJ! I love the apple seeds! Well written JJ! I love the apple seeds!

]]> By: Furrow http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35918 Furrow Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:21 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35918 Wonderful post, JJ. I'm shocked that people are already asking you about a sibling for the O-man. They need to chill and enjoy the deliciousness that he is. Wonderful post, JJ. I’m shocked that people are already asking you about a sibling for the O-man. They need to chill and enjoy the deliciousness that he is.

]]> By: Jamie http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35899 Jamie Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:15 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35899 Wonderful post! I was lucky enough to get my BFP before we had to face serious treatment like IUI and IVF. But the time before my BFP was two years of doctor's appointment, blood work, u/s, drugs, miscarriages and heartache. As much as I love the baby growing inside me, and as much as I would love for him to have a sibling, I am in no hurry to return to that dark place.<br /><br />I say enjoy where your at now! Wonderful post! I was lucky enough to get my BFP before we had to face serious treatment like IUI and IVF. But the time before my BFP was two years of doctor’s appointment, blood work, u/s, drugs, miscarriages and heartache. As much as I love the baby growing inside me, and as much as I would love for him to have a sibling, I am in no hurry to return to that dark place.

I say enjoy where your at now!

]]> By: Lynn @ human, being http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35900 Lynn @ human, being Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:15 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35900 I get that question because I have just one bio daughter (and a stepson) and everyone wants to know if my fiance and I will have more. My answer has always been, "And you want to know because ... ?"<br /><br />It's not their business!<br /><br />:)<br /><br />Lynn I get that question because I have just one bio daughter (and a stepson) and everyone wants to know if my fiance and I will have more. My answer has always been, “And you want to know because … ?”

It’s not their business!

:)

Lynn

]]> By: Jamie http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35919 Jamie Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:15 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35919 Wonderful post! I was lucky enough to get my BFP before we had to face serious treatment like IUI and IVF. But the time before my BFP was two years of doctor's appointment, blood work, u/s, drugs, miscarriages and heartache. As much as I love the baby growing inside me, and as much as I would love for him to have a sibling, I am in no hurry to return to that dark place.<br /><br />I say enjoy where your at now! Wonderful post! I was lucky enough to get my BFP before we had to face serious treatment like IUI and IVF. But the time before my BFP was two years of doctor’s appointment, blood work, u/s, drugs, miscarriages and heartache. As much as I love the baby growing inside me, and as much as I would love for him to have a sibling, I am in no hurry to return to that dark place.

I say enjoy where your at now!

]]> By: Lynn @ human, being http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35920 Lynn @ human, being Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:15 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35920 I get that question because I have just one bio daughter (and a stepson) and everyone wants to know if my fiance and I will have more. My answer has always been, "And you want to know because ... ?"<br /><br />It's not their business!<br /><br />:)<br /><br />Lynn I get that question because I have just one bio daughter (and a stepson) and everyone wants to know if my fiance and I will have more. My answer has always been, “And you want to know because … ?”

It’s not their business!

:)

Lynn

]]> By: JJ http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35901 JJ Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:14 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35901 I really appreciate all the comments, ladies. And Id like to say to the annon commenter that I am giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are just reminding me in a kind way of my incredible blessing: I hoped to convey that in this post, because trrruuuussst me, it literally makes me GAG when I read that someone is jumping right back into fertility treatments/other means of adding to a family when their baby is only months old--I may catch some flack for even saying that-(I know time is precious for fertility) BUT it also makes me sad--like Chicklet said--you run the risk of missing out on your current child's life by getting so wrapped up in treatments all over again.<br />So believe me, I completely know how lucky I am to have a real live baby. I meant to convey that Im NOT ready to think about #2, etc--but thats what has brought back that infertility sting, when people start asking. <br />Ehh, I hope I am making sense. I hope I always, always, always make it known that I feel so lucky-and I am here to cheer on my sisters. I really appreciate all the comments, ladies. And Id like to say to the annon commenter that I am giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are just reminding me in a kind way of my incredible blessing: I hoped to convey that in this post, because trrruuuussst me, it literally makes me GAG when I read that someone is jumping right back into fertility treatments/other means of adding to a family when their baby is only months old–I may catch some flack for even saying that-(I know time is precious for fertility) BUT it also makes me sad–like Chicklet said–you run the risk of missing out on your current child’s life by getting so wrapped up in treatments all over again.
So believe me, I completely know how lucky I am to have a real live baby. I meant to convey that Im NOT ready to think about #2, etc–but thats what has brought back that infertility sting, when people start asking.
Ehh, I hope I am making sense. I hope I always, always, always make it known that I feel so lucky-and I am here to cheer on my sisters.

]]> By: battynurse http://writemindopenheart.com/2009/06/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-35902 battynurse Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:41:14 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/guest-post-jj-on-sibling-revelry#comment-35902 Great post. I hear you on not wanting to go back to treatments. At my last ER I remember thinking I don't ever want to do this again. Same with the ET. Great post. I hear you on not wanting to go back to treatments. At my last ER I remember thinking I don’t ever want to do this again. Same with the ET.

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