http://writemindopenheart.com/2007/08/adoption-issue-parenting-issue-ego-issue-2.html Open adoption parenting and mindful living Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:35:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://writemindopenheart.com/2007/08/adoption-issue-parenting-issue-ego-issue-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-25984 KarenO Mon, 28 Sep 2009 21:26:53 +0000 http://thisisbogus.wordpress.com/2007/08/02/adoption-issue-parenting-issue-ego-issue#comment-25984 You know, one thing I'm scared of for you is that if you don't sort this thing out right now once and for all, it will be coming back to haunt you in her stormy teenage-years. Do the sleep-over thing, see how it works. If it backfires, then try something else. You are her mother, you're the one helping her along the path to adult hood. It's a sticky situation having Crystal so much part of your life, and I don't mean it in a bad way, but you're a strong, resourceful woman, I know you'll do the right thing for all of you. </></>Thinking of you in this tricky situation ... ((((hugs)))) You know, one thing I’m scared of for you is that if you don’t sort this thing out right now once and for all, it will be coming back to haunt you in her stormy teenage-years. Do the sleep-over thing, see how it works. If it backfires, then try something else. You are her mother, you’re the one helping her along the path to adult hood. It’s a sticky situation having Crystal so much part of your life, and I don’t mean it in a bad way, but you’re a strong, resourceful woman, I know you’ll do the right thing for all of you. Thinking of you in this tricky situation … ((((hugs))))

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